cgraff wrote:rlomba8204 wrote:
Chris Graff, not to pick on your point about the lawyer, but it provides a good segway of what I am trying to illustrate here: the other side should know that you will have counsel and that the other side will be hearing from you without you explicitly stating so. That is the posture you want to convey, and doing so is a combination of tone, presentation, and how you handle yourself. If you are good and you know what you are doing, you should never need to make a threat of any sort. It is unspoken and that is far more effective in convincing the other side.
Chris K, again good luck with this. Be patient and persistent with them and don't overlook the grounds damage either. That is more of your time wasted here frankly from this jackass kid.
Ray, I see your point, and agree 100%. I didn't mean to come off combative or presumptuous - I apologize. Obviously we'll have to wait and see what the adjuster comes back with. And I agree 100% on the posture and tone that one ought to convey. I was just writing very quickly and probably should have spent more time on the post.
-CG
Chris,
No worries. The thing is, that motivates my thinking here, is that my wife and I are both attorneys and while we rarely discuss projects or clients, one of the things we both routinely express amazement about is how many times lawyers are involved when there is no need whatsoever, IF the clients would be reasonable and try to see the other side's perspective. That's not to express agreement with the other side, or admit that your side has no merit, but rather just an attempt to take a few steps in the other person's shoes.
Here, if it were me, and I saw things were trending in a less than ideal direction, I would have said something like this to the adjuster:
"Hey, I know that this is not a car with which you may be familiar, and that may make your job difficult in terms of State Farm reaching what I believe to be a reasonable settlement figure. Is there a way I could facilitate that adjustment process? For example, I am in the BMWCCA and we have people who are very knowledgeable of the market with respect to niche vehicles. Could I have you speak to such a person? Or maybe send you some research from Hemmings or other such publications? I assume that State Farm is a 'stand up' company and so that the real difficulty here is going to be trying to find what we both to believe is a reasonable value. Is that fair?"
Not to sound pollyanish. Insurance companies can be extreme scumbags. We all know this. But at the end of the proverbial day, it's not the adjuster's money. He has a job to do, and he has to presumably justify his payouts to a manager or according to some set of internal policies and procedures. If you give him the information he needs to reasonably conclude, and justify, that this car is in fact let's say a $6k car in its current condition, it will be a hell of a lot easier for him to pay you. Plus the fact is that from the simple "human" perspective such an exchange makes it more likely that you and he will have a decent rapport, and makes him more likely to try to do for you what you have just made it easier for him to do (by justifying the car's value). Does that make sense?
So that's not to say that there may not be a place for a firm discussion at some point, but understand that from the insurer's perspective you and I are just another claim and another task, and this is just another old car, UNTIL you show him otherwise. All this other "stuff" -- from "I'm going to call my lawyer" to citing the rareness of the car, is all nonsense and noise at the end of the day to the extent that he doesn't really care and it doesn't help him do his job because he can't take your word or my word for it, because that's just not how things work, as we all know.
Finally, don't foreclose making a claim under your own insurance in this type of situation. I understand the natural hesitancy to do so when you aren't at fault, but at the same time you paid for the insurance. If you have a covered claim why would you not make a claim if you need to do so when the alternative is potentially laying out thousands of dollars of your own money? What's the worst thing that happens? The company drops you? OK. Find another. That's the beauty of the market.